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UNFINISHED BUSINESS

by Mark McFeely, Natural Healer

Reading back through my case history notes, I was struck by the number of female clients who have had at least one abortion. The figure is about 90% . What is more striking is the pattern of how that experience actually affects their lives. Whether or not they come to terms with their actions psychologically or emotionally, the body still holds on to memories which do have a sabotaging effect. These memories are lodged in what I call the bodymind. It is quite alarming just how much these bodymind memories do block personal development, in all aspects of their lives.

And... It is interesting to note that the males, who can easily disassociate themselves from the abortion, often carry the same deep-levels of self-judgment, and are therefore subject to the same negative programming.

When I ask about the abortion, and how they feel about it, they usually respond with confidence that they have resolved the issues, and that they are clear about it. But, the body speaks differently. It is important to realize that when you conceive, your body activates a whole series of programs that dramatically change your hormonal balance, metabolism, energies, etc. When the pregnancy is terminated, your body is thrown into total confusion, which can take months to straighten out. Sometimes it takes the full nine months, or more, for your body to get back onto what would be a reasonably normal cycle. This is quite a shock to the system, and can have long term repercussions.

Another aspect is the internal conversations you may have about whether you did the right thing or not. The little thoughts of what happened to the person who might have been. Twinges of shame, guilt and remorse. Could you, or should you have taken a different course of action? Will you be punished? Will you be able to have another child? Will it be normal? Will the next child be the re-incarnation of the aborted one? You know how the script goes for you.

It is one thing to terminate a pregnancy, but quite another to sabotage your own life. Guilt has no value in your life. Whatever about the morality of the action of terminating a pregnancy, unconscious self-destruction or deprivation does nothing for anyone. I have had many people come and tell me that they have worked with forgiveness and affirmations, but still carry the shame and the guilt in their bodies. Those processes are all very well, but tend to work more with the mental aspects, rather than the energetic fields and information systems that actually effect who, and how you are.

Abortion is usually a conscious decision. But, unwanted pregnancies, miscarriages, sexual abuse, and many other experiences relating to the female reproductive system, tend to fall into a different category. You most likely would not have consciously chosen them. Never the less, they also carry similar charges of shame, guilt, or loss, with derogatory effects on your self-esteem, health, spirituality, creativity, prosperity and general aliveness. All of these, and many other experiences tend to cause a shrinking back to a small place, withdrawing from the mainstream of life.

The good news is that this can be turned around. By addressing these issues in the bodymind, and putting them to rest, you will no longer be under their control. By using the very specific healing techniques of vibrational medicine and quantum physics, as in Bodymind Transformation, you can be released from the programs that prevent you from really living.

It is my passion for you to be free of any feelings of shame, guilt, or unworthiness that may haunt your body, and really come alive again. Get back in touch with your innocence, vitality, lust for life, creativity, and prosperity.

© Mark McFeely, 1992.



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